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COVER STORY
Homicide #126
 
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"Don't judge the parent - they already feel guilty. Be supportive and give them respect.  The death of their loved one is no less painful than for any other family."
-- Victoria Greene
 
     
 
    EDUCATIONAL SUPPORT

Advocacy is most effective when supported by education. Upon request, we will also provide the following:

  • Educational Presentations  

  • Workshops on the effects of drug-related homicides

  • Training for Victims Services Staff

  • Life Skills for Youth At Risk: "Are You Being Paid or Played?"

 
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   

Because of the tragic nature of homicide, it is likely that you are experiencing a combination of trauma and grief reactions.  Even though these reactions will be listed separately, you will notice that the lists share some common features.  As you look over the lists of trauma and grief reactions, keep in mind that you may experience all, some or few of them:

Trauma Reactions

  • Flashbacks of the murder incident as you imagine it.
  • Intrusive thoughts in which you may feel as if you are re-experiencing the events surrounding the day of the murder.
  • Increased arousal, for ex., an exaggerated startle response and difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep.
  • A vivid and persistent image of your loved one.
  • Attempts to avoid anything associated with the murder.
  • Reoccurring dreams or even nightmares.

Grief Reactions

  • Shock
  • Confusion
  • Denial
  • Depression
  • Anger
  • Guilt
  • Physical reactions
  • Concentration and memory problems